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Lately, this topic has been discussed at Aradia Fitness and Pole Dancing classes and among the students. Is "being sexy" a state of mind, what someone wears or what others think of you? At some point in our lives, many of us have felt a loss of sexiness. I know for myself, it was after I had my babies (it’s hard to feel sexy when your breasts are leaking milk and you have spit up in your hair! Good times! Good times!)
After much thought and sharing of ideas, They've realized that it's an attitude..a belief. A core feeling deep down, that we are sensuous beings.
So they want to bring sexiness to our everyday life. Here's a list they came up with:
1. "It's how I feel in my skin. I love taking a hot bath, scrubbing my skin, shaving my legs and using a fantastic moisturizer. My skin feels incredible."
2. "A great pair of jeans.. one that suits my body type and size. The skinny legged jeans are not meant for my body image.. I feel sexier in a pair of jeans that fit properly."
3. "Shoes! Sexy, black heel shoes.. they aren't 4 inch stilettos.. classy and sexy with a heel that I can walk in without wobbling."
4. "My mind. I think positive, optimistic thoughts that boost my self confidence. Okay.. I also think of Orlando Bloom.. Brad Pitt.. George Clooney.."
5. "It's the sway in my hips.. and honey I got hips, so I move them!"
6. "In the morning, I spend time on my hair and make up.. which isn't easy with 10 month old twins.. but I make time! I like being a yummy mommy!"
7. "I love sexy underwear.. they are my little secret! Okay, maybe not a secret anymore!"
8. "I know I'm not going to be pencil thin-- I don't want to be.. I love my curves!"
9. "I hold my head up high, I make eye contact with people and I love to laugh. I have confidence.. that makes me feel sexy."
10. "Music.. I have music playing all the time.. music that makes me move and groove! Movement is sexy to me. Give me music by Barry White, Etta James-- rich soulful music
What helps you feel sexy and reminds you that you are a gorgeous woman? We encourage you to look for ways to put that groove back in your day to day life. You deserve it!
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